Work With Me

Coaching

This is for you if:

  • You wonder if your sex life could be better

  • You feel frustrated and hopeless about your dating life

  • You are curious about “what else is out there” for you in relationships

  • You want to develop or explore your sense of sexual self

  • You are experiencing a loss of libido and/or sexual function

I strive to create and steward an environment of vulnerability and trust where my clients feel validated and heard.  Together we will explore your core values and discover how we can better align them with your sexuality, sensuality, and self-expression. By using my approach of sexual empowerment and sex positivity, I will guide you through finding a deeper understanding of what love and sex mean to you.  My goal is to help you create safe, consensual, and pleasurable sex in your relationships and learn how to communicate effectively.  This includes exploring your needs and boundaries and establishing a comfortable and healthy way of communicating this to current and future partners. 

Education

This is for you if:

  • You host retreats or workshops about bodies, minds, or hearts

  • You want to learn more about sexual function

  • You are curious about the biology of sex and sexuality

  • You want to start tracking your hormone cycles so that you can live in better sync with them

An educator by blood and training (I come from four generations of teachers and educators!), I feel at home stewarding group and individual learning. I am candid and energetic, bringing my enthusiasm and passion to the table with every lesson. I use “plug and play” methods, where we review existing lesson plans and adjust them to the group or individual’s needs, and I also create curriculum and content from scratch.

  • Sexuality and Sexual Health and Functioning

    Self-Esteem around Sex and Communicating Needs within your Relationships

    Sexuality and Intimacy

    Polyamory, Non-Monogamy, and Open Relationships

    Kink, BDSM, D/s Relationships

    LGBTQAI Issues

  • Ask for what you need/want in the bedroom

    Develop the freedom to express your authentic self within intimacy and sexuality

    Understand consent and consensual sex

    Recognize barriers to romantic love and remove them

    Find your voice and become free to speak your mind

    Connect and/or reconnect to your creative self

    Have more access to pleasure

    Build self-esteem

    Feel less isolated

    Develop skills to cope with anxiety

  • Groups of young people

    Groups of adults

    Individual adults

    Couples

    Individual youth (ages 12+)

    School groups

    Jewish groups

  • Sexual diversity can be challenging to talk about openly, whether with partners, family, friends, medical providers, or therapists. Stigma, shame, and guilt can be powerful contributing factors to one’s struggle with identity and understanding their own sexuality, orientation, and gender. I welcome gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, intersex, queer, questioning, all types of non-monogamy/open relationships/polyamory expressions or explorations, sex-positive, and kinky/BDSM clients.

    I also understand that your sexual identity or expression may not be the focus of our work together, as there may be other issues that you wish to address. It may also be that through our work together you determine that you have needs that can best be met through therapy or through seeking the support of other professionals. I commit to helping you take the next step on your journey, and I am so grateful for your trust and willingness to have me here with you.

    Find links to resources on sexual diversity here.

 

I offer a free 15-minute phone consultation to all new clients.

My time for educational content creation and facilitation ranges.

Coaching sessions are available on a sliding scale fee structure and I am committed to making sex education and coaching accessible for all. Discounts are available for LGBTQ+, SWers, BIPOC, and/or folks with disabilities.

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 Our time together is for YOU. Though I am the professional, it is you who will be in the driver’s seat, with me as your navigator.

Testimonials

“I can't thank Cady enough. She is compassionate, sharply intelligent, and openly curious. Her advice and consultation have been so clarifying in helping me work through my life's course as I navigate changes in a serious relationship, attitudes about sex, and my overall worldview as a human. Cady’s advice from even our first session resonates for me months later. I know I can be a more authentic person thanks to her!”

— Sam, client since 2022

“Cady made a space for me to be my fullest self and feel safe to explore new facets of my sexuality and my sensuality.”

— Miguel, client since 2021